
Over six decades, Hilde kept diaries, collected photographs, and saved theater reviews of plays she performed in.
From Hilde's album of reviews, here is one about Zuckmayer's play "Katherina Knie" in which Hilde played the lead role.



“The author [Ralph] had almost made the following written work ready for publication, when he was – in the middle of a state examination, through a mishap – torn away from his life, still so young and entirely filled with scientific endeavor. I took it as my duty, even after his death, to get into print this diligent although not exhaustive synopsis of recent literature on the problem of the development of secondary sexual character.”
What was the mishap or accident (“Unglücksfall”) to which the editor refers? This is the account that Hilde told us, which is echoed in Erich Kstner’s fictionalized rendition (in the 1931 novel Fabian) of Ralph Zucker’s life: Ralph, a medical student, had taken an important examination. Another student told him – as a kind of joke – that he had failed. Despondent, he took his own life that day. But actually he had passed the exam with high marks.
Here's an early photo of Hilde -- I'm not sure how old she is, perhaps 12 or so.

In October 1931, my father wrote this note
to his (soon to be born) son Peter, on a blank page of the (original edition) of Rilke's
Duino Elegies, just to the left of Hilde's photo:
Hilde had a small volume of "Erinnerungen" (Souvenirs) written by her mother, father, brother, and classmates and friends between 1919 and 1921, when she was about 10-12 years old. Each entry is charmingly written, with exquisite and unique penmanship. It would be good to display pages from the volume on this website, but we haven't got around to doing that yet.
More about Hilde and the history of the Barglow family is here.